Meals Together Host FAQ
What if I do not live in Blacksburg?
Please understand that if your home is not near a Blacksburg BT bus route and you cannot provide a ride, it may be difficult for international guests to come to your home. We will try to find guests with cars for your home, but your flexibility and understanding will be helpful. Also, if you are significantly outside of Blacksburg, the travel time and effort may prevent successful Meals Together at your home.
Are the internationals Christian? Will they know that we are Christians?
Most of the students and scholars we interact with are not yet followers of Jesus. They come from all faith backgrounds. This is an opportunity to let them feel and see the love of Christ in your life.
On the guest information page, we state that all hosts are Jesus followers. It is also listed on our website (where the students sign up) that our volunteers come from local participating churches. The ISIvt.com website clearly shows we are a Christian organization.
Do I have to have some sort of program or activity planned?
In general, no. The students are interested in your home environment, your daily life and your family. In fact, most students/scholars are here without any family, so you help fill in this role in their lives. Many internationals never get into an American home, so just sharing your home and your life with them is significant.
If you are searching for things to do other than just the meal, here are a few suggestions: Questions in a Box App, board & card games, singing and playing music together (if this is something you do regularly), prepare some of the food together, doing seasonal holiday activities (pumpkin carving, decorating Christmas trees, Easter egg hunts), or invite them to teach you something about their culture (food, holidays, games, art).
I’m new at loving internationals, will I receive any training?
If you are new to the program we will have an introductory conversation with you so that we know a little about you. You can voice questions. You are required to attend a training before you become a Meals Together host. We won’t have time to cover everything, so below are some useful resources we can recommend. You are welcome to email us with questions during the semester.
Will the internationals in my home know each other?
Not always. This is an opportunity for them to meet other internationals, so we pair guests randomly but prayerfully and under the direction of the Holy Spirit.
Should we pray before the meal?
Don’t interrupt your regular practice of praying before meals, if that is the routine at your house. Simply explain what you are doing and invite your friends to observe. Internationals usually enjoy observing how American families go about their daily routines.
Do I have to be married or have a house to be a host?
No! You and your roommate/friend can host. Apartments are fine too. We do ask that you limit the number of roommates/friends you invite to host with you. We value the intimate setting of a few of you around the table so that you can adequately engage with student guests. We do advise that at least two adults host together.
Our Meals Together host households can include marrieds with and without children (or teens), older marrieds, single adults, and apartment/housemates.
Please understand that if your home is not near a Blacksburg BT bus route and you cannot provide a ride, it may be difficult for international guests to come to your home. We will try to find guests with cars for your home, but your flexibility and understanding will be helpful. Also, if you are significantly outside of Blacksburg, the travel time and effort may prevent successful Meals Together at your home.
Are the internationals Christian? Will they know that we are Christians?
Most of the students and scholars we interact with are not yet followers of Jesus. They come from all faith backgrounds. This is an opportunity to let them feel and see the love of Christ in your life.
On the guest information page, we state that all hosts are Jesus followers. It is also listed on our website (where the students sign up) that our volunteers come from local participating churches. The ISIvt.com website clearly shows we are a Christian organization.
Do I have to have some sort of program or activity planned?
In general, no. The students are interested in your home environment, your daily life and your family. In fact, most students/scholars are here without any family, so you help fill in this role in their lives. Many internationals never get into an American home, so just sharing your home and your life with them is significant.
If you are searching for things to do other than just the meal, here are a few suggestions: Questions in a Box App, board & card games, singing and playing music together (if this is something you do regularly), prepare some of the food together, doing seasonal holiday activities (pumpkin carving, decorating Christmas trees, Easter egg hunts), or invite them to teach you something about their culture (food, holidays, games, art).
I’m new at loving internationals, will I receive any training?
If you are new to the program we will have an introductory conversation with you so that we know a little about you. You can voice questions. You are required to attend a training before you become a Meals Together host. We won’t have time to cover everything, so below are some useful resources we can recommend. You are welcome to email us with questions during the semester.
- Tips for cross-cultural hospitality: theserviette.com
- For information about a particular country/religion this site is helpful: prayercast.com.
- For some helpful articles and videos on sharing Christ’s love with internationals see these sites: reachinginternationals.com, everyinternational.com
Will the internationals in my home know each other?
Not always. This is an opportunity for them to meet other internationals, so we pair guests randomly but prayerfully and under the direction of the Holy Spirit.
Should we pray before the meal?
Don’t interrupt your regular practice of praying before meals, if that is the routine at your house. Simply explain what you are doing and invite your friends to observe. Internationals usually enjoy observing how American families go about their daily routines.
Do I have to be married or have a house to be a host?
No! You and your roommate/friend can host. Apartments are fine too. We do ask that you limit the number of roommates/friends you invite to host with you. We value the intimate setting of a few of you around the table so that you can adequately engage with student guests. We do advise that at least two adults host together.
Our Meals Together host households can include marrieds with and without children (or teens), older marrieds, single adults, and apartment/housemates.